--'This is the reality I've created
--------------------------------of me'

So

--'This is the reality I expect
the world to approach me with'
-------------(and get violent/upset when it doesn't
-----------------------------------------work that way)

we always have choice

--we're holding up an impossible world
----and we get upset when it all falls down
--(we are limited, can't see the whole picture
---------------------------------------------------'til we're not)